Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Rekindling a glowing splint

What does it mean to rekindle a glowing splint? --Bringing the fire back. Yup.. Well, how is this done? By pumping oxygen into the atmosphere.
  I'm not here to blab about chemisty but 'chemisty'. Well how do you rekindle a glowing splint in a relationship? You need to let it breathe. The same way it takes oxygen (air) to rekindle a glowing splint, it takes breathing space to rekindle a relationship (or fix it).
  Firstly, you guys need to find out if you are still into eachother. If you're not, then it wouldn't make any sense to fix the relationship but if you are then read the rest of this post :D
  Give yourselves some time alone. you need to breathe. One of the major reasons why couples break-up early, is because they were too clingly or were always doing everytime. At some point you get fed up. It gets really irritating. You need sometime to miss yourselves and long for eachother. If not, seeing eachother would be like a normal thing. There would be nothing special about it. For those of you who live together, go about your normal daily lives during the day. At night, you can have something together but not every night. Take sometime out to hang out with your girlfriends/boyfriends. And when you get back you'd see what you missed. :).
  Secondly, to maintain a strong relationship, do not forget the reasons why your partner was attracted to you at first. Well, if you were faking it, its a damn pity. But it's advisable to always try to be the same. Let your partner know the real you and don't forget those little things you did (like telling him/her how sweet he/she looks) that made him/her happy.
   If you are thinking sex could fix a relationship, you are wrong. Very wrong indeed. It might be able to drag the relationship a little further in certain cases, but it wouldn't make things better.
   I would have to leave this off here. I might continue this post later but for now i need to get going....

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Ange
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